Would it bother you too if you find your boy friend/girl friend used to be on porn business?

by **MsMori** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:21 am

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. He's pretty well known male model in the industry and it does not bother me when he takes his clothes off since he's mainly doing the underware/fitness shooting. I try not to ask too much about his career and past because I didn't want to be seen as an insecure person and try to act like i could care less about all the attention he gets when we are out. But last month i googled him and found out before he became big, he got involved in many soft core porn movies including couple gay porns! I'm sure he didn't want me to find out because he would always say our past is not important and he only wants to focus on our future. He's not a very bright guy but really sweet and kind hearted person.. otherwise I wouldn't be dating him for just being a handsome face. But recently I am starting to feel uncomfortable about him being in those porn movies.. am I over reacting toward this? how should i get over with it?

by **DiamondXxx** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:29 am

Geez...I would see if you've known him for a couple of weeks but sweety at 6 months you should already have known what you were getting into.Did it take you six months to feel uncomfortable or what? Anyways,if this bothers you now then you need to sit him down and talk,because this may not be the guy for you.Those vidoes of him are NEVER going away,so you may always feel uneasy.

by **therealisticdreamer** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:30 am

Time to get a new boyfriend

by **ScottE978** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:30 am

i could not ever date someone who was in the porn business

by **diane589** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:30 am

That would be super weird. This just a matter of your love for him. If you love him enough to accept his past then you should stay. If not then you should evaluate if you still want to stay in this relationship.

Good Luck :)

by **Alaric444** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:32 am

are the pornos any good? can u post link? and how big is his penis?

by **ftp** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:37 am

yes you're over reacting. and you probably shouldnt mention that you searched him. it's a small violation of trust. he'd much prefer that you asked him, though i doubt he would have told you the full truth.

instead of thinking about what he did, think why he did it? maybe he was broke, maybe he was experimenting. when you just look at actions it's soo easy to judge, you can understand the person better when you know why.

you should be happy about his popularity. many girls would be glad to take him from you. you think about when those images of his porno self start popping up.

think, why am i upset? do you even know why you're upset? your emotions are just a consequence of other factors. do you consider porn disgusting? are you questioning his sexuality?

by **H849** on Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:45 am

Ewww.. i'm sorry but that's all i can say.
I feel sorry for you... he might as well be a gay

Would it bother you too if you find your boy friend/girl friend used to be on porn business?