Why does no one want to be my friend for more than a month?

[DonaldofRavenswood]

I suffer from Paranoid Schizophrenic Psychosis coupled with Severe Depression and I'm extremely delusional, according the mental health professionals anyway. I know I have depression. I don't believe the Paranoid Schizophrenic Psychosis part. I think they are full of shit. Anyway, I flatly refuse to go on psychotic medication because I don't want the voices and my supernatural powers to go away.



I make friends fairly easily. I can't keep them. Most just run for the hills after 2 or 3 weeks. Most won't even talk to me anymore more or less tell me why they run away. The ones that do say something tell me they are afraid of me. I wouldn't hurt a flea, unless it deserves it of course.



I have run out of ideas of how to convince people I won't hurt them as long as they don't hurt me.



I have absolutely no friends at all right now.



Any ideas of what I can do or say to convince people I won't hurt them unless they hurt me first?



I just wish I knew why everyone on the planet hates my guts.

This is for Jane S. Why don't you do society a huge favor and comitt suicide?

[Alwayswatching794]

Im manic depressive bi polar plain freakzoid i have no friends at all im socially retarded and cannot hold coversations because i just get bored or dont care or say what im thinking so yea . . . . . . . people hate people who aint norm o.O

[breezymourn897]

You really need to get on psych meds. They will help with keeping friends as you will no longer think you have supernatural powers. I am bipolar and medicated I am much nicer than unmedicated. There are reason they give meds to people with mental disorders. They NEED them.

[Nykki]

I dated a guy that had the same "disorders" as the so called "profesionals" like to call it and personally i think they are all full of crap. There are no normal people overyone is different and nobody is better than the next no matter who they are how much money they make how much they can afford to spend a year on usless $*** you should email me browningnykki@yahoo.com

[FeelingGuilty176]

What is normal? We're all made in Gods image. Love yourself and others will love you. We all have problems, though you may think your problems are pretty severe, what do you think people think about their own hindering problems? I hate my addiction. HATE IT. But it's not me. And fortunately for me, it is something i can change with help. I understand that some psychosomatic problems cant be changed. But why would you want to change them unless they're endangering others? Embrace yourself as you are and others will embrace you. As far as people hurting you and you hurting them..... Everybody hurts, Everybody cries........Sometimes!..! Sound familiar? It's true. You can't expect people not to hurt you. It's in our nature to be hurtful to others. We've been this way since the "apple". It's our duty as compassionate human beings to asses hurtful situations and react to them in a positive manner. Hope I helped. Good Luck. If ya ever feel like chatting just send an E-Mail from my profile.........

[555741]

You kno what, i hate people like that, who dont want to be friends with people with mental health issues, if i knew you, i would be your bloody friend, no matter how ill you were!! i too have mental illnesses, so i know what boat your in!

[D916]

I think you and others , have to find your support with people who are educated and /or understand what it is you are going thru, and that this could be different than the so-called 'norm'... Many people cant deal with anyone who is different....
Mental health and society dont acknowledge religion, hearing voices, american indian religions, and anything other than what they believe... having said that there must be something you are relating that is frightening people, and you could work on not doing that if you want other types of friends..
So , I am recommending you and others find support groups with people with similar issues to make friends, and go slowly with other people outside that ........ here is a support groups site run by doctors below... for you and others....
Finally, If you want a good comprehensive work up , to know if you really do have any of this, the only ones who do it are conventionally trained, but here is a resource maybe better than others thru dr phil.... see below
It is commonly known among hormone experts that schizophrenia ,bi polar and many other mental illnesses are caused by HORMONE imbalances, and it would be very much worth it for you to have them properly tested and treated by specialists.. sometimes the results are dramatic and immediate.... (this could mean you might not need as much meds, or meds at all, but you have to test them and heal them to know for sure) see below...
So, I am saying, get your support, then get more opinions and tests from the right people....
and go from there
Traditional chinese medicine uses acupuncture and herbs to treat these illnesses, you could find out about those , too
And a free healing method, below, also

[JaneS538]

Because you're a friggin' idiot. If anyone on this board actually believes your stupid story, they need help more than you do. You're playing mind games because you know there are enough nut jobs around that someone will take you seriously. I don't. I do, however, think you're a pitiful, lonely, isolated and socially maladjusted individual. You should absolutely seek professional help for that, but you may not find a doctor who doesn't immediately hate your guts too.

[Annaaa]

if you need a friend i'll be your friend. just send me a email

[Arvind509]

Donald, reflect on the below when you interact with another the next time."If you love something,
Set it free.
If it comes back,
It is yours.
If it does not,
It never was."