This creepy guy wants me?! Help?

by **crlymrie** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:13 pm

This guy has been my neighbor for like all of my life and we used to hang out when we were in elementary school but we kinda just stopped talking to each other. Then in April-ish he began going after my friend Christina but he mainly just stared at her and watched her during lunch and stuff. (ew) So this went on until June when she got a bf and he backed off. Then he went after my friend Emily, and since she felt bad for him she agreed to go out with him over the summer (woww) but they never hung out and she ended up breaking up with him.

So now he's going after me. I think that he actually likes me, but I think that he also just wants a gf for the sake of having one (he practically told Christina that, and he was referring to me). He even lied to Christina and Emily that he went out with me before in 2nd grade! My friends tell me that he talks about me a lot. And now, he's sitting next to me on the bus and he approaches me in some of my classes and talks to me. Whenever I insult him (haha) he doesn't care, it just backfires and he turns it into a flirt. What the heck should I do to get him to go away?!

I'm a sophomore in high school if that helps..

Oh yeah and there's no way that I'd give it a shot, my mom thinks that he's a creep and so does like the rest of the school. I think that he stalks me too. And the fact that he's my neighbor just makes it worse..

by **Jade650** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:17 pm

Just ignore him, or be mean to him, the fun will be gone if you don't talk to him and he will move on unless he's a stalker than you're kinda screwed.

by **tim112** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:19 pm

i would go up to him make sure you make eye contact and let him know that there is no way you will ever be seen with him,and to stop his rude behavior.

by **SofiaB** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:20 pm

i will talk to him and tell him i don't what anything with him, and start ignoring him. Because if you start talking to him even if is just to insult him,he sees that is a way to talking to you, so my advice ignore him

by **SarahandCourtney** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:22 pm

Do you have any close guy friends? Just pretend that your guy friend is you boyfriend and then he might back off like he did with Christina. You could just not talk to him (like when he walks in the room) turn to your friend and talk to her when he talks to you, act like he's talking to someone else (so dont answer) and tell him - hes a creep. And if that turns into a flirt, just keep saying "seriously" and it'll hurt him on the inside - so he'll figure your not the right one - you'll hope :)
i feel your pain! ~Sarah and Courtney

by **xxxx461** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:35 pm

I think I was a creep when I was your age, so I am answering from that point of view: treat him civilly and politely but keep a distance when you do talk to him; keep it very brief. Don't insult him as that will just whet his appetite. I recall that there were girls I liked and the ones who acted like a real lady -reasonably friendly but distant - were girls I ended up admiring. The other thing I think of is that my wife told me there was a boy in high school who really liked her but she didn't give him the time of day. She feels kind of bad about it now because he was really a nice guy and the one she dated ended up being too possessive. Just think of the fact that almost everyone goes through this phase and it is really a tough time - at least it was for me. Being as friendly and polite to everyone as possible makes life a lot easier- in the long run, we're all in the same boat. Besides, who knows, this guy may end up becoming the CEO of a large company later on when your husband is desperately looking for a job. If he remembers you as lady-like (you knew how to brush him off in a considerate way) he will be more predisposed to hiring your husband. You never know what the future holds.

by **oswaldeugene877** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:47 pm

Pour milk over his head!

by **ElliotKane931** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:48 pm

He's clearly chasing after anything female right now and you are unattached, hence prey.

Your best bet is to simply tell the creep that you are not at all interested in him and then ignore him.

Once he finally gets the message, chances are he'll move on to some other girl, anyway.

by **80ist** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:56 pm

Ur last sentence says it all. Being ur nabor facilitates his stalking. Ignore him. Do not egg him on with insults. Avoid any communication but be firm if he bothers u in public: make sure ur friends know he disgusts u. Can ur dad talk to him or ur big brother? He seems like he still has a lot of growing up to do. Can u change schools?

This creepy guy wants me?! Help?