Should I tell him about the abortion?

by **hey872** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:20 am

why would you kill a human being for a guy? a guy youve been dating 3 weeks at that? if you dont want it give it up for adoption. oh and why your at it see a psychiatrist.

by **GodofMetal** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:20 am

OMFG you stupid stupid whor. wtf. really? I mean i believe in abortion cause nobody wants a baby til theyre like 30. but FUK YA YOU SHOULD TELL HIM!! you're acting like this abortion isnt even anything like if you have had several. if you had ...wow most sl uts like you end up keeping the first... well you need to tell him because its just right and if he thinks youre a whore then good. you are. but if he doesnt then thats fuken amazing and you guys will last for a very long time. its a risk.

by **DueMarch29thwithABABYGIRL** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:22 am

Why abortion? Just put the poor baby up for adoption...It seems to me like your a whore!

You slept with a guy 5 weeks ago, got pregnant and now your wanting to get an abortion...Plus your seeing another guy right after him. Get on some damn birth controll or just stop having sex period.

You said " mind you I don't wanna lose him " That's really selfish of
you! Try thinking about the baby and not some dude you just meet 3 weeks ago!

by **katrina242** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:24 am

first off don't get a abortion just because of your own stupid mistake. that is your baby inside of you, your blood. its totally wrong to get an abortion. especially if your not even going to tell the father. that is his baby too and it would be EXTREMELY selfish of you to not even tell him that you were pregnant and than go off and KILL his blood. how could you do that to your baby!? you might think this is what you want but trust me i thought that was what i wanted and it wasn't. i went to planned parent hood to get a abortion. but once i saw the ultrasound of my baby i couldnt do it. and now that i have my baby shes the best thing thats ever happened to me. in the future you will regret doing that. just trust me think this over. and please tell the father. he deserves to know. put yourself in his shoes.

by **Mypreciousbabyboy12410949** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:24 am

Well, if you don't want to lose him, then why are you getting an abortion? Yes, it is your body, but it's not your heartbeat you're taking away. It's not your life you're taking away. That baby started having a heartbeat at just 3 weeks. Ecology scientists have proved we are humans the second we were conceived. I don't know your situation and i don't know where you came from and i don't know you at all and i'm not going to judge you, but that baby is a precious baby that is depending on you to give it life, would you really want to let your own child down? Yes, you maybe be scared at what having a child can do to you and your "reputation" or how your family will look at you, but once you start feeling that baby kick and once you hear that heartbeat for the first time, you'll never regret it again. Especially when you give birth and see your baby for the first time. It's priceless.
Just think about it. Is it something you really want to do? If you have any doubts about it, don't do it. If you're going to have an abortion, make sure it's what you want to do 110%

by **AnnaH568** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:24 am

Wow an abortion i wish i never read this because its really harsh to go and have sex and kill an living person. You will regrat it later. Why in the world you having sex if you can't handle the responabilty of a child, If you can't handle the responsabilty of a child then you shouldnt have the responsbilty of having sex.. But since you had sex then your grown up to understand the responsabilty of having sex then you should have the responsabilty of taking care of that child.. Damn i hope your over 18 geez whats wrong with people these days.. You shouldnt bee having sex if you take care of what will happen by getting pregnant.. Your living on this earth, Your mother and father gave you a life so now your taking a childs life.. Why not give it up when its born to someone that would LOVE to have a child, which alot of women can't have children and people like you are so selfesh and just kill the most percious gifts on this earth is a child that god gave us women to have.. But your a big girl go a head do what you got to do but you will think about it once you kill that child then it will be to late..

WWJD

by **missjonas** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:26 am

DONT GET AN ABORTION!!!
you have 4 days to knock some sense into that head of yours.
sure,you made some mistakes and you may not want this baby, but theres GOT TO be another plan...murder is never the answer

that baby inside of you, may be too tiny to even see but it has a beating heart, and is breathing just like everyone else, it is wrong. DONT DO IT!

that day in the doctors office, ask yourself this:
would you kill the precious baby in your arms in 9 months?, would you kill the toddler giving you kisses and saying "love you mommy?"
would you kill the kindergartener running to you giving you a picture he/she drew for you at school that day?
then why? why would you kill that precious child now?

by **Ava024** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:27 am

Don't tell him. Maybe if it comes up LATER ON in the relationship and you feel comfortable enough to tell him then you can. But that's not something that's even any of his business of you've only been seeing him for 3 weeks.

by **TheDoctorswife** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:28 am

I think you should tell him. The center i work for counsels many post abortive women and everyone I have ever seen or heard of needs emotional support afterward. Has anyone explained abortion procedures to you or the level of fetal development your unborn child is at? It even has a beating heart now! Most post-abortive women say that if they had know those things, they might have made a different choice. Please just make sure you get the facts and think about the repercussions before you abort the child!

by **BabyBoyDue12-29-09** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:33 am

Yes you should tell your boyfriend, that way he will know what you are doing and putting your self through. My mother had an abortion when she was 17 and she is 38 and still to this day she regrets doing it. Every single person I have ever talked to that has had an abortion regrets it, and I'm sure you will to at one point or another.

And why should this baby suffer the consequences of you having sex with some guy? If you truly do not want the baby then give it up for adoption. Did you know that the baby's heart already beats? In my opinion you shouldn't use abortion as a form of birth control, and that is what you are using it as. There are plenty of families out there that would be more than happy to adopt a baby.

Should I tell him about the abortion?