Please, PLEASE help me give advice to my friend who is feeling insecure about herself.. she deserves it.?

[ChrisB]

This summer, I was going to take my absolute best friend to a Jonas Brother concert, which she has never been to. She isn't obsessed with them, but she looks up to them as role models and would be happy to see them in person.

Her father is a pastor and strongly believes that she has too much idolization in her life, and is therefore not allowing her to go.

He doesn't support the 'person she is becoming' because of her 'idolization'.



This led to her feeling insecure about herself, while thinking her sister and brother and perfect.. and she is just, average.



How can I make her feel better?

She's really upset and I feel bad.

She's the sweetest Christian girl in the world, and she doens't deserve to feel this way.

Please help.

[TaxLady]

Get people that know her in school or where ever to write down on a index card something they like about her. Then take all the index cards to her!

[Booyakasha]

Take her to a Christian camp so she will not have to struggle with more idols. She should feel like a second class citizen, encourage her to be more like her brother and sister if she wants to be like them.