She has been moping around the house, saying that she thinks I don't find her attractive anymore. She especially is bothered because she says in our lovemaking I don't take time with her, seem to not appreciate being with her anymore. I know women have a lot of weird ideas about stuff like this, and I was wary of talking to her, but I tried.
I told her that it didn't matter if things weren't so hot as when we first were married; it's been 16 years, after all, and let's face it, neither one of us can be expected to turn the other one like in the past. She objected, saying she was as much into me as ever, that she couldn't even imagine being with anyone else, that women weren't all into just looks, but the person. Well, I told her I loved her, the person she was, but just because our lovemaking has sort of turned into just getting a basic need taken care of, that doesn't mean I think any less of her.
She got all weird then, and asked if I didn't find her still as beautiful as ever, even after having five kids. I tried to calm her down, because she was getting that whiny sound in her voice I hate, and I told her it didn't matter, I knew I couldn't do better than her, that I realized I was stuck with her, and knew I wouldn't stand a chance with anyone else. I don't understand why she started to get upset; I still do it with her, so what's the problem?
Well, she just got all weird, and I couldn't talk to her anymore; why is she being all moody and strange lately?
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