My husband thinks that i am weak and that I won't leave him!?

[AnitaL]

My husband is cheating on me..I confronted him about text messages I read..one from his ex saying are you coming over tonight?

And other texts from other women..He swears that nothing is going on..He promised me that he would change and stop hiding his phone, car keys, passwords ect..but he is a fat liar he keeps hiding his phone, keys, receipt everything you can think of.

Now he is driving a Expedition and I asked him whose car is that and where is your car..he told me not to worry about it..He removed the car registration and information just so i wont know who the car belongs to!

Why God I really want to know who the hell I married..This man change so much he could care less if i trust him or not, he doesn't care about how I feel, he thinks that i am weak and i can't leave him!

We have a joint account with our cell phones and he wont give me the access code! Since he is the account holder i have no way in checking our phone records without the access code and he made the account a high security thing or whatever they said!

He is going to the extreme for me not to catch him with solid proof! Obviously he loves what he is doing and he doesnt want to stop.

I found his phone one day and he did something to it and the phone could only be used at a certain time.

I am so depressed about my situation and I know one day I will get up and live his sorry behind and show him that I am not weak and dumb!

I wont allow this man to treat me like i am not even worth a penny!

I need to set an example for my 2 year old daughter.

I will be honest I would of left this man a long time ago because I know that he is using me but in a couple of months he is going to get a lot of money and my friends told me not to be dumb and stay until i have my part.

I bought a degital tape recorder to put in his car but he has been out of town for 2 weeks and i havent had a chance to do that. I know dat right now he is with another woman.

I really don't know how much more i can take from this man, disrespecting me, insulting my inteligence, i really don't think i can stay one more day...I just cant do this anymore!

[dot790]

Oh sweetheart open your eyes get out you are goin nowhere wiv him be strong move on you can find better !!! lol

[Tia861]

Get off your ass and walk, girl !
Far far away. Dont wait for your daughter to grow up enough to know who her daddy even was.

[princess346]

ok. so you've expressed yourself, but there's no question. If you need the money, ok. stay until he gets that big amount like you say, but if you don't need the money, move on!!! Right now!! Or the very least, move downstairs and sleep in a different bed -- start your separation now!!

[SexyHomerisback888]

You are weak, because you haven't left him -- you are ranting to us instead.

[Mista009]

Yeah girl he aint a husband he's a PIMP. Leave him take his daughter and when he see what he lost don't go back show him all the guys who can treat you right.

You like Beyonce except its "If you like it you should have kept a ring on it"

You strong and can do this.

[PEACEISMINEIN2009657]

Girl, think more of yourself than to put up with a cheater. there is always someone who will love you the way you deserve! Pick yourself up dust yourself off and keep it moving. If you have the proof that he is cheating you have grounds for divorce and HALF his $hit!

[Angel426]

You are not weak, you are a strong female. Its hard when you know that something is not working good. Why are you looking for evidence if you know that he is with someone else. stay focus and think clearly what do u want for your daughter and for yourself.

[BlackIceQueen]

Set the example for your daughter and move out and move on. What are you waiting for an STD or a love child from some other woman to show up as proof? I got news for you if this money is from a lawsuit settlement your name will be on the check too - he can't cash it without your signature. At any rate, regardless of where the money comes from, the money is not going to buy your self respect back for you nor will it teach your daughter how to be in a healthy relationship. Don't even talk to him - call your family and go home. No warning. Your warnings have fallen on deaf ears. Action is the only thing that will remedy this situation. If you wait around and let him leave in his own good time you will feel even lower than you do now and it may lead to a bad/violent confrontation. Its not worth it - live for your daughter not him.

[674581]

Your marriage isnt going anywhere. Hes never going to change. When he comes back you need to sit him down and ask him what is going on. Ask him if he wants to continue to be married to you and ask him what his goals are for the marriage. Express your feelings and concerns. Then ask him to go to marriage counseling and if he refuses then just leave. Run and don't look back. He sounds like the type of man who wants to have his cake and eat it too.