My husband thinks that i am weak and that I won't leave him!?

[fh84]

i feel for you girl. im married we have a 5 year old together and im being disrespectd as well...in front of HER which really is what gets to me...anyways, have you two considered marriage counseling? my husband refuses to go so its ending but if you and he can go together that may help you guys and these issues...He sounds so selfish and immature though...if hes not ready to grow up, sadly, it has to end. or seperate, try to scare him you know... make him start to wonder why you dont care any more...but do not hint that you are cheating or doing anything to get him "back" because that could only make things worse. you have to show him that you do not need him and youd rather keep your dignity and pride...so keep your chin up. if he refuses counseling then i think you know what you wil have to do :/
email me if you ever want to talk, since im going through it to... hayes0909@att.net

[PinkLaurel]

Good for you in deciding you're going to leave. You don't deserve to spend the rest of your life in an unhappy marriage. Life is too short to waste over a guy like him.

I do agree with your friends though. Since he's not physically abusing you, wait until the money comes in and then leave him and take your fair share. I'd say try using this time to start emotionally seperating from him. Every girl deserves to be the center of a guy's heart. Go and find the right guy for you.