my fiance's little brother whom is 13 has been looking up gay teens online?

by **Ashley** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:21 pm

his mom wants my fiance' to talk to him....how does he do this????? what does he say to him???

by **Mel183** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:24 pm

that shouldn't be his problem. That is a talk that his parents should have with him.

by **GammaRay** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:24 pm

This is a parental issue.

by **Daisyhill960** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:24 pm

He should not. It is not his job and he may make his brother very uncomfortable. He may not be ready to discuss his sexuality...it's private.

by **JosephC359** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:25 pm

There is no beating around the bush here (no pun intended). He has to be straight and ask him directly. This needs to be serious.

by **babygurl358** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:25 pm

Mom needs to restrict his computer access if you ask me. It's not your fiance's concern and I think mom is wrong for trying to get him involved. The kid is going to look at those things as long as he has a computer and internet in front of him. By the way don't ever let him use your computers lol. Viruses are bad.

by **lovemydogs891** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:28 pm

it may not be anything serious, i'm in the same grade with 13 year old boy's and they do that & chat with them, but it's just a big joke, don't worry :)

by **dcba420** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:30 pm

that is most definitely a parental issue.

if your fiance is the one that ends up talking to him, there really isn't much to be said.

by **Kaite807** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:30 pm

First off for the people that said mom needs to talk to him that's not true. She probably feels that he would feel more comfortable talking to another male. Just have your fiance sit with him by themselves, and tell his brother that he had found the sites that he was looking up, and if he has feelings for the things hes seen. Have him ask his brother if he has questions, or if he feels that he likes males. It could be a possibly that he has feelings about guys, or it could be that hes just curious. Have him be calm and understanding. If he does say that he thinks he might be gay, then tell your fiance to relax and tell him that hes there for him. The worse thing to do is say that its bad to be gay, then hell feel down on himself. Good luck

by **Fireball297** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:32 pm

cut it out right now!!

make sure computer is in public area like kitchen

my fiance's little brother whom is 13 has been looking up gay teens online?