my fiance's little brother whom is 13 has been looking up gay teens online?

[angelG]

the parents should be dealing with this issue .

[Oathkeeper]

O.o It's not your fiancee's job. It's your fiancee's parent's job.

[RolandM293]

Your fiancee is going to have to be honest with your Mom. "I'm sorry, but if you were prettier and less of a shrew, maybe he wouldn't be looking at younger versions of Dad now."

I mean, that's the truth. Every homosexual person I have ever met, regardless of whether they feel it is biological, sociological or whatever... every single one of them has a mother who isn't a saint, and who has lots and lots of problems and issues because she doesn't act like Mother Theresa.

If you're a mother and you have a child of a different orientation, I dare you to tell me that you never once had a mean thought about someone. Somewhere in school you laughed at a fat girl, or you mocked a clumsy boy, or looked down at someone of a different race or color, or you lied on your taxes or something. Something. I can say this with 100% statistical probability. Because you're not Mother Theresa.

When you were eight you laughed at a kid with glasses, or something. God wants only kindness to breed, and somewhere somehow has a genetic mechanism in place that when you had a negative or mean thought when pregnant, a chromosome changed.

It's therefore always the mother's fault. She needs to woman up and talk to your fiancee's brother herself.