MEN: Tips on being a good wife? Women's opinions are welcome!?

[Dymonsatl]

What are some things that you think make up for a good wife? I have my thoughts, but I would really like to know what others think? Especially men!!



Ladies, what has helped you with your marriage or preparation for it?



Only Serious responses

[marypoppins397]

just dont kill him!! (easier said then done!) lol

[Richard321]

well my wife got me some 19inc wheels for my car now im super in love with her. and i just love her for being her her being funny and bad and her good hobbits and bad ones to.

[WOWbrandywineWOW]

Honestly, Its pretty easy :

1. Feed 'em
2. F*** 'em
3. Look good
4.Be "homey (cook, clean etc)" as they should too, if you do all the three above

I think thats the most part of it. Men are pretty easy to please.. but woman on the other hand... eesh, thats a list i really dont have time to make.. haha and yes, i know because i'm a woman. hee hee

[KissThisYahoo543]

Here's what men what.....a good looking gal who takes care of herself, that can cook well, that does not sweat the small stuff, that has her own life, but is dedicated and loyal to him. Being great in bed and adventurous is very important. A good sense of humor is a must. Be respectful of his family, especially his mother.....have a wild side, but not too wild.

[BigJv3743]

Rule number one, don't nag. You can either tell a man what to do, or how to do it. If you do both, it is seriously annoying.

But in general love and respect him, and ask that he does the same thing.

[Happy-2309]

A good wife possesses the following: emotional maturity, honesty, a sense of responsibility, the ability and willingness to communicate effectively, a healthy libido, and an absence of addictions and emotional baggage.

[True943]

Well I have been married for 11 years and my husband swears I am the best wife a guy could have. I believe in both old traditions and new ones. I do keep the house clean, I cook, I do all the laundry, I take care of the kids, I fix his plate and bring him his food, if he asks me to do something and it is reasonable and in my power to do, I do it, and in the 11 years we have been married I have never denied him sex. But he is the same way, if it is in his power to do for me, he does it. We try to communicate majority of the time. My mother was never a nagger, so I am the same way I hate to nag or be nag, so I don't do it. I see it this way he has needs and I have needs. And both of us should make sure the others needs are being met. I also believe that even though you got the man doesn't mean that you let yourself go. So I make sure I still look good. The key is not just to get the man but to keep him also. I could go on and on about this subject but I hope some of this has helped.

[seductress290]

It actually depends on the man. You can not put down on paper what men in general think. For example. My father hates sports, so he could care less that my mom hates sports also, but my husband loves sports (and so do I) so he needs a women who understands and will not nag him for sitting in front of the TV all day Sunday and watching football. I think there are several things that a man "expects" from a wife like cooking and cleaning, but all the other stuff is what makes a person individual and it just depends on what that specific man wants or needs. If all a man needed was to for his house to be clean, for there to be food on the table and a sexy wife in bed then why do movie stars break up? There is no clear cut answer.