Just married and upset. Am I over reacting?

[n9wff]

Change the locks on the doors and see his reaction, if he is mad or remorseful.
Sorry, but the first woman in his life (and ONLY) should be you. If he can't pay that amount of respect for you, he should have never got married.

[Seven180]

WOW.

If he is doing such things AFTER ONLY TWO MONTHS, just imagine what's going to happen in a year?!

Forget about him, his a dumba$$ cheating on you. Divorce and move on with a better man who deserves you.

[SM734]

Let's see...

1) he's done something he said he'd never do, he always felt was wrong, and probably risky.

2) he's been distant.

3) He's been coming home late.

4) he's hesitant about discussing who he was with.

5) When you tried to discuss it, he LEFT - not just avoiding the conversation, just up and left.

I'd say that unless he's willing to be very open with you about what happened, and discuss serious ways of improving, and how he plans on doing that - not just in what he does, but in how he relates to you, and communicates with you...well, without that, you don't have much of a marriage.

I'm sorry, I hope things work out.