Is wanting to have sex normal?
by Lacey634 on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:14 pm
Whats so special about 20? And yes, wanting to have sex at thirteen is perfectly normal. It's called horomones. And you just stated that you dont want to have sex till you get older. So your answer is right there. Its called will power. If you actually mean it, then you will do it. It's as simple, yet complicated, as that. And here is some serious advice coming from a fifteen year old, sex doesn't feel "good" unless its with a person you truelly love. I know, sounds cliche right? But honestly its the truth. I thought about being a porn star too actually, because you get payed to have sex, how great right!? WRONG! Not only could you get pregnant and get an STD, you lose your purity, innocense, dignity, and respect. I suggest going to church, or go to the SILVER RING THING concert. I loved it. And no, im not a church goer actually nor a virgin, i had officially lost my virginity when i was fourteen but i was sexually abused when i was alot younger. But i promise you, there is nothing better that you can give to your future fiance then your virginity. It is the greatest gift. So why give your greatest gift you have to offer to some random guy, some pervert, or even someone you don't love. THINK ABOUT IT. To help just imagine that its better to wait because you have something to look forward too. Im not saying to wait to have sex until your married im saying think about how much your worth. Do you deserve to be with a pervet and get used or do you want to have sex with someone you love and are sure they love you back. TRUST ME HUN think about it. I know alot of people have sex in highschool. Ignore it. Love makes sex reach a whole new level. Good luck sweetie :)