Is wanting to have sex normal?

by **avionn** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:15 pm

it is perfectly normal after pubrty you will have these feelings less it is like a dog in heat but it is also good for us boys :P for reasons we will not disclose.

by QG on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:15 pm

completely normal.
DO NOT have sex at this age, you must wait til your body is ready.
i had sex when i was 14 and i'm fine now.. it didn't destroy me mentally or anything.. just make sure you use protection correctly and make sure you read about it and know everything..

by **Satan113** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:15 pm

if it wasn't the human race would of died out.

but your 13 and that will properly just be your hormones going crazy

(you are to young so wait and buy a hamster)

by **thecoolestever** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:16 pm

Thats not normal. You're wayyy too young to be masturbating too.

by **ana2rosa2003055** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:18 pm

It's completely normal to want to have sex. I was a teenager too, and I know how strong the urge and those feelings can be. However, watching pornography is not healthy.

It sounds like you are addicted to porn and have been corrupted by it. At age 13, that is extremely disturbing to me. You should not be watching pornography at your age. It serves only to twist and pervert your thoughts.

At some point, I think you will have to seek psychological counseling for your addiction.

by **Aurora892** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:19 pm

i think its normal. I'm 13 too and masturbate a lot. At least once a day for a little over 30 minutes. i really want to have sex too. But i'm planning on waiting as well. its just our hormones. i noticed that after i started using tampons, i was hornier more often.

weird i know.

Hope I could help

by **CleoCATra** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:48 pm

Wanting to have sex at that age is completely normal. You´re going through (or maybe have already completed) puberty and that means you have raging teenage hormones.

Masturbation and watching porn is extremely normal at your age as well. It´s normal to be curious about your body and about what sex is like, which is why young people often explore their bodies and self pleasure through masturbation, or watch porn.

I´m glad to hear that even though you have these feelings, you want to wait. Ask any adult who had sex at a young age (myself included, I was only 15) and every last one of us will tell you that we wish we would have waited.

There is no ¨magic formula¨ that will make you wait. It´s just about having a lot of willpower and self respect. Masturbation is a healthy way to release some of your sexual tensions without going out and having sex, so I suggest you continue doing that. When you start dating, I suggest you discuss your desire to wait with your boyfriend and tell him that you expect him to respect your wishes.

When you finally decide that you are ready, be sure that you are making the decision for yourself and not because your boyfriend, friends, or peers are pressuring or coercing you. Get on birth control (pill, shot, condom) BEFORE you start having sex to prevent pregnancy. Also, keep in mind that pills, shots, implants, etc only prevent pregnancy and do not protect against STDs, so be sure to you use a condom every time as well.

Best of luck.

Is wanting to have sex normal?