is it normal to be a virgin at 15?

by **Tillythegreat** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:33 pm

about 90 percent of my school isn't. what do you think?

yar i live in the uk. :)

by **Blah347** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:38 pm

yes it is, those ppl hu say they arent, probably are, trust me!!
x

by **biscuit** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:38 pm

it's perfectly fine - wait untill you're ready and not when you're pressured by your friends.

And you can be certain that it's not at high as 90% (it might just feel like that)

by **greengo847** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:40 pm

hey, a lot of them are lying
but yes it is normal and healthy to be a virgin at 15
why the pressure to have sex?

by **LindaR153** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:40 pm

You are one of the lucky ones.....great job!!!
ALL girls should remain virgins until they are over 18 and married!
To the 90% who are not virgins...........SHAME SHAME SHAME ON YOU!

by **Jennifer767** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:40 pm

Hell yeah, it's normal. 90 percent of your school aren't virgins, because they are having sex because they're friends are having sex. Therefore, they doing everything what their friends are doing.

by **Eva949** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:43 pm

Of course! Don't just rush into it because you're a certain age and it seems like everyone else has already done it, because seriously, if you do, you'll regret it. The longer you wait, the better. Be mature and smart about it and wait for the right person!

by **lemh** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:46 pm

I was until I was 18 and and am currently married to my first. I think that I might have been ready before that, but definitely not at age 15. From conversations with my husband and male friends, most guys think less of girls who have been around a lot or are easy... they will sleep with you, sure... but not date you or really take you seriously. It's a big decision, though. I think back to relationships I had in high school (and even college before I met my husband) and am SO glad I didn't sleep with most of them, because they turned out to be losers.

by **Avey-Baby** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:48 pm

okay.. um.. these days I guess it almost seems as if being a virgin is out of the ordinary, but believe me it's not! Some kids are having sex and some are not. Some lie about it to seem cool. In my opinion as long as you are ready there should be no shame or regret.

And in all honesty it is pretty insane to hear about all these really young girls giving "it" away. I'm only 17 and I remember middle school as one of the happiest times.. and at that time I was only worrying about kissing a boy, not having sex with him.

I don't know.

Just wait till you're ready,and don't give into peer pressure.. that is one of the worst things anyone can do.. <3Avery

by **abc123804** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:48 pm

the people at your school sound like slappers. The age of consent is 16 in the UK so most of them are breaking the law (thats if you live in the UK)

is it normal to be a virgin at 15?