Is it bad that i lost my virginity at 17?

by **hereiam** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:09 am

Okay so i lost my virginity last week and i'm 17 but i'm gonna be 18 in a month. I'm very mature physically and mentally and i understand the whole world of stds and pregnancy and I made sure that the guy i had sex with wore a condom and i even checked if it broke right after just to make sure (which it didn't). I enjoyed having sex and i didn't regret it one bit but today my i decided to tell my mom and she said that i was dumb and that it was a really bad thing to do and she basically told me allot of things that made me feel bad and I honestly only feel bad because i don't want to disappoint my mom but i'm tired of living a lie i mean i'm not gonna lie to myself...i'm a very sexual person and i'm not planning on getting married at any point in my life so here is my question is it bad to have premarital sex if your not even planning on ever getting married....is it bad to have even lost my virginity at 18?

by **WickedLovely365** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:14 am

Unless you had some giant life plan concerning it, I don't see why, as long as you were save and secure in doing it.

If you did it because the person was pressuring you, I'd say that it wasn't the right thing to do, but if you had feelings for the person and don't regret it then it doesn't seem like you should feel bad about it.

by **rashawn344** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:14 am

ITS NOT BAD GIRLS THESE DAYS LOST THERE VIRGINITY AT THE AGE OF 14 EVEN YOUNGER AND THATS THE TRUTH

by **Hazeleyez** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:15 am

i THINK YOUR MOM IS UPSET BECAUSE YOUR HER DAUGHTER AND SHE FEELS LIKE YOU COULD HAVE WAITED. i lost my V at your age(23) now and i would have waited!!! Because every man can offer you pleasure, or give you pleasure, some more than others but its all the same at the end of the day. I love sex, it does feel good, but once that feeling is over, then what??? That's why I think I should have waited til I was married!!! But to each its own!!!

by **dramaqueen** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:16 am

no its not bad god your not a baby anymore!
think theres loads of ppl that lose theirs earlier like 14 and stuff and you were responsible you had the condom and stuff think how many do it without?? you nearly 18. 18 you do what you want and your mum should be happy that you told her that you did it

Is it bad that i lost my virginity at 17?