I am going to lose my virginity but im really scared can you help ! x?

[Natalie]

hi iv been with my boyfriend for 3 months and are ready to take our relationship further . We have talked about sex and we want to do it but theres just one problem im really scared of the pain and the bleeding im soo scared. They say it hurts less if ur sporty ect but im not so i think it will reallly hurt please help x x

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[Loopylou958]

3 months are you sure your ready!!
how old are you anyway??
my personal opinion is if your scared then your not ready.
its going to hurt regardless, i think you should wait until your fully grown my self.
when i lost mine it hurt and it continued to hurt the next few times we did it and i bled every time as well.
just be patient and wait!!
Loopy :-)

[birdie462]

try inserting something in your vagina, start off with small things like your finger and move on to larger ones as it stretches. this way your hymen wont ever break and you wont feel any pain. i did it and when i had sex for the first time it got in easily and there were absolutely no pain

[Keeeebabesxx]

If you are scared this shows your still not ready yet ,do it when your fully relaxed and comfortable and with the right person ,if you do decide to go ahead and have sex i recommend to use a condom , just relax and ask him to go slow because your still a virgin , or even better not trying to be rude but ask him to finger you before anything else , hope i helped ,xxx xxx

[Skittlesof2009]

ok i'm gointg ot be real with you...I just lost mine a week ago and well it did hurt and I did bledd for like a couple of days after that...but a alot of females dont bleed...but i was scared to as long as he take it slow and you are well lubricated.....you will be fine.....if you need anymore help or have wuestions feel free to e-mail me.....

[Jay576]

being scared is normal. just ask him to be very caring while doing it.ask him to use lot of lubrication.he shud play enuff with u to make u wet.and dont forget to use a condom.

[Jonsul800]

i don't think my wife would be happy about that

[Sabrina989]

If you're that scared, you probably aren't ready. But if you insist on doing it, just know that the pain isn't horrible, and it fades after the first thrust. And you shouldn't bleed hardly at all.