How does a woman know if her husband wants to save his marriage? What will he start to do?

by **Ronni** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:16 am

We have been separated for about a year now and have been more off than on. I love him dearly. We both felt betrayed in the marriage for several reasons, but I've never really wanted to get a divorce because I thought these tough times would pass. Instead I chose to move out before things got any uglier. He's slowly coming around and I don't want to push it. I just want to know if he is really hoping to save his marriage.

Are there any tips you can give me on things he may say or do to show that he still wants this? Like I said before I don't want to push anything right now because we are in a fragile state.

by **LostInTheMatrix** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:21 am

Marriage consultant would know better

by **LV248** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:27 am

you shouldnt have to GUESS whether he wants to work on your marriage. Have a serious sit down with him and ask him, why isnt he on here saying, "I just dont want to push her?, She is in a fragile state, if he wants to work on your marriage he needs to say it,,,

by **Grousemouse598** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:33 am

go back to his real wife!

by **mack761** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:49 am

Well you know him better than any of us so what you need to do is think of a discreet way that you can either trap him in a conversation to get him to drop a hint or just try something like holding hands or a kiss or something that the 2 of you haven't done for a while. Other than that, I don't really know what to tell you except just take it slow like you've been doing and hope for the best.

by **RitaS053** on Sat May 09, 2009 5:52 am

Hang in there,it will be o.k.

by **Javier169961** on Sat May 09, 2009 3:42 pm

I dont know what teh details are...but is he was in the wrong...he would go all out...if not...his fight is minimal

by **WisenSmart765** on Sat May 09, 2009 9:13 pm

Signs he wants you

1- After 30 days of separation, calls you to try to work things out because he loves you. A person who loves, cannot stay away from the loved one.

2- Would be interested in your whereabouts and your activities

3- An evening call to say goodnight

4- Will try to be around you, like asking you out for dinner, a movie.

5- He would talk about your differences and try to come up with an action plan to work it out. Never ignores it.

by **BettyM544** on Sun May 10, 2009 12:23 am

Good communication is the root of every good marriage. If you can't talk to your husband, then there is no hope for this marriage.

After being separated for one year, the two of you need to stop putting off what you should have done a long time ago. Go to your husband and tell him you love him and you want to save this marriage. If he has any desire to save this marriage too, then the two of you need to go to a marriage counselor. Either work together to repair this marriage or call it quits and get on with your lives.

by **waitingforbaby600** on Sun May 10, 2009 8:15 pm

You the one who know him, look at what he is doing differently,
and does what he is doing are making you happy
only you can tell
Good luck

How does a woman know if her husband wants to save his marriage? What will he start to do?