how can i help my girlfriend who has lost all her self confidence,?

by **mrg** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:50 pm

by **LoopyLou1994** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 1:07 pm

Compliment her ALL the time. I know what it's like to have low self esteem and the other day someone complimented my eyes and you have no idea how happy I felt after that!

Just tell her you love ehr, tell her she's beautiful, tell her you love her eyes!

AS long as your telling the truth it should work...

if you do it all the time then she'll gradually get more and more confident. =]

Hope I helped!

by **Lisa083** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 1:23 pm

i have no self confidence and i have a boyfriend and i think it would help if he said he loved me more and didn't make other people more important than me for example rather go out with his friends than me a si always put him first,that's a reason why i feel i love him more than he loves me.
Always give compliments:) And think before you speak!
Its good to know you want to do something to help her feel better that's pretty sweet (Y)

Hope you achieve it!

by **EF033** on Sun Jul 05, 2009 5:24 pm

The most important thing in this situation is the "do no harm" principle. Do not tease her, especially in the presence of others, and do not say anything that she may take as harsh criticism.

In general, try to be supportive and praise her where your praise is genuine (but do not just praise random things--saying "you look great" every time you see her is not necessarily helpful). If the problem is really bad, you may suggest her to visit a psychiatrist (real medical psychiatrist, not a "shrink").

how can i help my girlfriend who has lost all her self confidence,?