How can I enjoy spending quality time with my prospective partner?

by **Sunshine** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:16 pm

without having sex? I met him two months ago and I am found him to be a good guy.However we still have a lot to learn about each other before going on to the next level.The problem is we've already had sex thrice and I think the sex is messing up my head.How can we build our relationship without falling into the sex trap?

by **thatsmrsheathentoyou** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:22 pm

Once you've crossed that line, it's almost impossible to go back. If you wanted to know more before you took things to the next level, then you should have waited until you knew more. There are plenty of things you can do together, spending quality time, without having sex. Just plan more things out of the house where the opportunity won't arise.

by **YouWish833** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:23 pm

Quality time is just that. Good experiences.

Take a hike, a road trip, a spontaneous vacation. Volunteer at an animal shelter together for an afternoon. Take your young relatives out for ice cream together. There are so many things you can do that don't include sex.

The things I have suggested will also show you what kind of a person your prospective partner is.

by **Oceanside2454** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:23 pm

Sex, messing up your head. I have never heard that before. If you go into a huge candy store, do you walk out without getting a sample?

by **Courtney110** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:23 pm

Go on a date to a theme park! Or try just spending time together talking about your interests. Sex is ok, but its important to set aside some time to really get to know each other.

by **Richard816** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:26 pm

Sweet Mildred is queen of the playpen...Crawl into her secret society with me

by **me142** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:28 pm

it is too late it is all about sex now... what the heck enjoy the sex!! i wish i could fall into the sex trap with someone!!

by **Rebecca454** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:30 pm

go hiking and have sex on the mountain peak

by **dot500** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:31 pm

I wood,nt call sex three times in two months a sex trap !!!
Sex is part of a relationship an yes there is a lot more to learn about this guy but if u stop the sex you will be messin is head up ??

by **GammaRay327** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:33 pm

Seems you've lost your creativity.

How can I enjoy spending quality time with my prospective partner?