Help! My boyfriend says he wants space but i think he wants a break up?

by **Dani** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:26 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months and at the moment we are in the middle of our hsc exams but for the past month he has been really distant from me. I haven't seen him for three weeks now because of the exams, which is understandable, however everytime i text him he doesn't reply and if he does he never says i love you anymore... I looked on his facebook and found that he had taken all the photos of me and him down. So in my act of frustration i texted him and asked what i was doing wrong and why he took the photos down and he said: " I just think i need space. Takes me two hours to get to sleep every night i think about stuff too much. Some things annoy me a fair bit so i'll tell you straight up. The reason why i took down the photos was just to ensure that i had space away from you cause i felt like i was seeing you too much. I hate it when you call me seany poo! It's so demeaning, my family pays me out all the time about it and two weeks ago i wanted to go to Jen's birthday, ive been mates with her since primary school and it was her 19th and i was hoping i could go even though you and i had plans together but you insisted that we go out instead. just need alot of space right now, got alot going on and i want to focus on what's ahead of me" I was really upset because everything was perfect up until a month or two ago. I really dont know what to do i haven't spoken to him for 4 days now and i really dont know when i should talk to him or if he's going to talk to me. He's also going away with his friends for schoolies in two weeks and i'm expecting that he wont talk to me then aswell and then the next week is my birthday...It will probably be a miserable one at that... Does he love me i dont know?? i need advice on what to do please someone help me! My heart breaks everyday when i think about him.

by **cici649** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:28 am

wanting space=BREAK UP

by **Andrea688** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:29 am

whoa , this is too long .

by **Alex753882** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:29 am

I think he is moving on... =(

by **Dave87gn520** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:29 am

he's trying to let you down easy- he's done

by **Kaite809** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:29 am

Alot of the time when people say that they need space, it mean they want to break up but not come out and say it, because they don't want to hurt your feelings.

by **zippyv40** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:29 am

obvious he wants to leave. youll get over it

by **_sWeEtCakE_** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:30 am

give what he wants.

i think you should read and listen to this?

Space lyrics
Melody Thornton
Ooh

The plan
Was to let me down gently
I know
The game
Was to call it temporary
Oh

Boy be careful what you wish for
Cause you might get that and so much more
I won't shed a tear
If you don't want me here
Boy I'll give you

Space
In the closet where my clothes should be
In that empty bed without me
Now I'm walking out the front door
You got exactly what you asked for
Space
In your phone where it said my name
Where I tore my picture out your frame
And I won't be around
When you figure out
You got exactly what you asked for
Space

Now wait
This ain't no way to be treated
Mmm
Mistake
You can't have your cake and eat it
Na Na Na
Cause any real man would up and leave
But I guess that's more than you can be
Let me help you out
I'ma leave right now
Boy you got your space

Space
In the closet where my clothes should be
In that empty bed without me
Now I'm walking out the front door
You got exactly what you asked for
Space
In your phone where it said my name
Where I tore my picture out your frame
And I won't be around
When you figure out
You got exactly what you asked for
Space

Where my kiss should be
In your arms where they used to be holding me
In your car
On the passenger side
There's an empty seat
Where I used to ride
Space in your mind when you think of me
Cause I'ma bout to be
A memory
Now you've got your space

Space
In the closet where my clothes should be
In that empty bed without me
Now I'm walking out the front door
You got exactly what you asked for
Space
In your phone where it said my name
Where I tore my picture out your frame
And I won't be around
When you figure out
You got exactly what you asked for
Space

I'll give you your space
You got your space
You got exactly what you asked for
Ooh baby
I'm so gone
You got me saying bye baby

Pls add me to your contacts. tnx

by **GuessWho315** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:30 am

You two are so young...you both need to step aside, take a break, and live life to its fullest.

by **baysjesse** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:30 am

well u will live to love another day its not the end of the line

Help! My boyfriend says he wants space but i think he wants a break up?