Help for shy guy!!!??? 10 Points!!?

by **JayOh** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:57 am

Hey im really shy and nervous in these kinds of situations but how can I overcome that to talk to/hang out with this girl I like? We went to a dance together a few weeks ago but since then I've only texted her a few times cause I really dont know what to do next. please help and keep in mind im not good at this at all. Im 18 and i've never had gf before so yeah. Thanks!

by **Omar526** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:01 am

Phuck same like me what da heck that is so similar yet no clue man

by **Jessay** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:05 am

aww its ok to be scared. my bf looked like he was dying when he asked me out cause he was so scared. but just be confident an talk to her more. an also hang out with her more often ( just to make sure she knows u like her). i think u should u should be good :)

by **Biggs** on Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:10 am

Well, your not in a uncommon situtation, this happens alot even to outgoing guys, its hard to find the perfect next move, and everything is a gamble. though you have to bump up the communication game. text her a tad more and call her every now and then, (though when its appropriate) for instance not around dinner time, not when she is with friends. call to talk or because your "bored", call to ask her a question about something you KNOW she can give an answer or good advice, for instance.. "my mom's bday is coming up, whats a great make-up brand to buy?" and she'll respond with, "well what kind of make up" play clueless... and thats a LONG Conversation.. then just ask her, "can i maybe take you to the mall to help me buy some? we can get some food too."

And hey, your killing two birds with one stone, grabbed the girl and you got make up for you mom ;)

I think you got her bro. everyone in every situation is dealt a hand, its about how you play that hand that counts.

The best of luck to you.

Help for shy guy!!!??? 10 Points!!?