For the divorced or separated men?

by **jmosley64** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:56 pm

How many of you have watched as your wife or X-Wife starts dating and loses her sense's of being a mother to your children over new sex and new men?

by **Strawberry267** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:00 pm

Well, I think that just to make you jeaslous.
Maybe, To get your attention to play the mom role of being w/ the kids.
Since that all she can do is relax from having a good time..

by **MASTERSHAKE885** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:00 pm

That happened while we were married, she would leave our son with me 3-4 times a week so she could go out with her girlfriends (which was code for the dude she was screwing), it only got worse after we separated. It's been 7 years and she did calm down, but she she wonders why our son wants nothing to do with her. I used to hate her for it (all the "daddy, why is mommy like this" questions), but now I just pity her.

by **Lauren482** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:04 pm

i am not divorced, separated, or a man but my mom did this first to me and my brother (we are 4 years apart and have the same father) then again to my much younger brother (we are 14 years apart and he has a different father than me and my other brother) my mom has the feeling that she can not live her life alone she always has to have 2 men at all times one that she is spending all her time with and 1 on the side just in case the first man falls through. she tends to get mixed up with stupid pill popping men who hate children so what does she do? she spends all her time with those men and forces her children onto someone else. thank goodness i had a loving and caring father and grandparents! who knows where my 2 brothers and i would have been without them!

by **stupendous680** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:04 pm

Don't blame that just on women, there are just as many men, if not more, in the same boat.

by **IslandArtiste304** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:12 pm

Isn't that the usual modus operandi of men when they leave their family for
something " new and exciting" ?
I guess you'll have to pick up the slack - same as women have to do all the time!

by **C_Starz2287** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:50 pm

I'm a woman, but my brother is now a full time parent (not that he minds) because hes ex discovered a new man, and has forgotten all about her family, I hope all you men get sole custody and throw these women under the bridges...I know men do it too...but it kills me that women can get away with this shit, and men are always getting crap for it....

by **Cyclist2300380** on Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:11 pm

It can easily happen the other way as well.... when a man gets into a new relationship... he forgets all about everything else as well.

For the divorced or separated men?