bucks night strippers?

[Marilyn704]

its wrong, we dont have problems with things that are moral.
whether you have religious standards or not, its wrong even if you never existed, he is looking at and fantasing about another girl and you play no part in it, he can recall her to his memory at any time in the future and he will.

[Lottofagina]

most bachelor parties I have been to the guy gets a freebie from the strippers. Sorry baby. Tradition

[Liv162]

yea i would get over it if u want a marriage to work you gotta let little things go.

[KnottyPine1213229]

Well, fortunately i married as much of a jealous person as i am.. so, we both mutually agreed no strippers.. well actually, no , we mutually agreed no bachelor/bachlorette parties. Actually we just had one giant get together with family and friends the night before.. celebrating our life together.. not the one night we have left without each other. Thnk about it, you are going into a marriage with the DAY BEFORE... celebrating how you are NOT with your spouse. I mean.. THE ONLY DAMN REASON people have bachelor/bachlorette parties with strippers, is because of someday someone decided to do that.. then for some ridiculous reason it became a tradition. Its like christmas.. no one celebrates WHY we have this holiday, no they stress out about what to buy.. and fantasize about who is going to buy me what. It no longer has any meaning other than a huge financial issue. So,.... all a can really tell you is 1) Im sorry if you married a man who doesnt even see it this way and 2) Before you even decided to get married, this is something he should of known how you would of felt about. But, there is not much you can do now other than say... you dont appreciate it.. and if he decided to do that, then thats something he will have to live with your resentment the rest of the marriage, and you dont feel living with hatred is worth getting married. Honestly, if he cares THAT MUCH about seeing strippers.. then, he is NOT worth anything hun. Tell him fine he can have a stripper..but you get to choose it.. then higher a male midget.. that will get even =)

Oh, oh oh, i almost forgot.... tell him fine, but you two are having a party together.. you are highering a male stripper, and he can have a female..they will be there together.. then he can watch as you get a lap dance and grinded on from a male.. maybe he wont find it so fun anymore... and pick out the girl stripper.. one with really tiny ta'ta's

[CLC]

Wow this is hard. What isn't though, right? I have the SAME view point with you on this touchy subject. I agree, you go and think sexual thoughts and then pay them on top of it.....I am lucky that the man I am engaged to has the same idea about it and from the get go I told him I would not date a man let alone marry a man that would go to strip clubs. It is another thing when he has to go to a bachelor party for a friend, he will normally leave the room or sit at the bar. Honey I know how you are feeling. What it does come down to is telling him how you feel. Exactly how it feels when you think about him going and goggling other women before he spends the rest of his life with you. He probably will understand and maybe you can have a happy medium. Like only a topless bar. It is also hard for men to say no to peer pressure from friends. Especially when this is "tradition". Honesty is your only choice right now...Your feelings are NOT wrong because it is how you feel. Make a promise that if they find something else to do you will give him a striptease to die for. Maybe even you guys can go together before hand and then you won't feel so cheated. You could also threaten all the girls you will kick their a## if they lay a hand on your man. LOL. Talk it over with him. You guys might as well start now. And ps he is not going to forget you exist. He will be thinking about you while looking at them. Weird but they are men. He is marring you. Congrats and good luck.