am i just good for sex?

by **JoeyM** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:09 pm

so for the past five years i have had a friend who i have nothing in common with and only see each other about once every few months. The only thing we have in common is that we have amazing sex. We have known each other almost our entire lives, but we don't tell anyone about our little romance.

In the beginning it was just "whatever" but now that we are all grown up im left wanting more. During the actual sex he seems to actually love me, but after we just act like it never happened. Now he has a girlfriend. and im not sure what to do anymore. i can almost say that when we see each other again he will want to do it, but for some reason i need more than that..... what do i do

by **baseballkid93481** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:13 pm

tell him

by **MJFAN143** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:14 pm

OHHHH WOW, i really dnt know wut 2 tell you, but even if he wants to he shouldnt becuz he would be cheating, but if i were you, i wouldnt, thats not fair to his girlfriend!

by **rebeccatotallyowns902** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:14 pm

uhhh stop being a hoe?
he doesnt like you, he only likes you because you make him come.
other then that yes, you are only good for sex.
congratulations!

by **maiAnne** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:15 pm

I think the person likes you as a person, but they don't love you.
if they did, they would be with you and not with a new girlfriend, right?
meet someone who will love you and have sex with you because of loving you, not the other way around.

by **CK643** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:16 pm

Yeah he just want's you for sex, but now you've got to back up since he does have a GF.

by **BryanK704** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:16 pm

Let it go now! This is not a good situation for you at all. Let him go and get on with life. Save yourself for that someone special who loves you even when you are not having sex.

by **DarkWolf** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:18 pm

it seems like he just does it to feel pleasure. if he rlly did u luv u then he would be UR boyfriend and would have fun hanging around with u. he would take ya on dates do romantic stuff other than sex. hes taking an advantage of u

by **Jen149** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:19 pm

You poor thing. I've been in this situation, and I can tell you that it will only hurt you. It sounds like you're letting him take advantage of you - if you have led him to believe that he can get sex from you with no strings attached, that's exactly what he will want.
Now he's got a girlfriend you need to step back and try and distance yourself from him a little bit until your feelings towards him ease. He clearly doesn't feel the same about you - he wouldn't have a girlfriend if he wanted to be with you.
I know that this sounds harsh, but you've said yourself that you have nothing in common and you only see each other once every few months. Having amazing sex is a great bonus, but it sounds like you want a relationship and it really doesn't sound like you're going to get it with your friend.
If he's a true friend, he will want to see you for your company, not for sex.

by **chada286** on Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:30 pm

You are nothing more than his good time girl. Sorry to say but to him you are a whore. You are not the girl he wants to be with. Forget about him.

am i just good for sex?